5 occasions on being 'irritatingly considerate'
1. scenario: you're partying wildly in a club at like 1am in the morning and your parents calls u n nags u to get home early.
no, they're not trying to spoil ur fun. they're just being irritatingly considerate for ur safety.
2. scenario: u get ur first paycheck n u wanna treat ur parents to a meal in some posh restaurant.
but they starts to complain dat every single restaurant on ur list is too expensive.
no, they're not being fussy. they're just being irritatingly considerate for u n ur pocket.
3. scenario: u wanna take arts in uni. but ur parents insist dat taking science will be a better choice.
no, they're not trying to take over ur life. they're just being irritatingly considerate abt ur future.
4a. scenario: (for guys) u bring a girl home. n ur mum/dad starts to 'educate' u in the birds n bees. they start telling u stuff like "dun anyhow how arh! later get ppl pregnant den u know!" when u did nothing close to anything like that.
no, they're not being too conservative. they're just being irritatingly considerate for u.
4b. scenario: (for guys) u bring a guy or 2 home. n he/they stay overnite cuz there'll be soccer tmr n they dun wanna b late. n ur dad goes "aiyo! y bring guy home? stay overnite somemore"
well, i dunno does this happen to anyone of u. but it does to me. they're just being irritatingly considerate for my sexuality. i supppose?
5. scenario: u're getting enlist to the army soon. n ur parents/grandparents ask u whether u're ready everyday. they start asking questions like "r u ready for army life? have u got everthing prepared? have u got enuff underwear?"
as naggy they might sound, n YES irritating, they're once again being irritatingly considerate for u. dun blame them. the army is killing too many ppl. and they just wanna make sure that u wun have to wear soiled underwear to training.
im sure at least one of these scenarios have occurred to everyone of u in one way or another. do not hate ur parents for irritating you. they do so bcuz they care for you and wan only the best for you. dun quarrel with them just bcuz they piss u off for being irritatingly considerate. spare a thought for them. cuz the roles will be switched in future. and u'll noe how they feel when u have a kid on ur own. 99.9% of the parents in the world love their kids. i would like to say NO parents wld hate their kids but im sure there's a minority of 0.01% out there.
no matter how naggy n irritating my parents and grandparents can be. i love them n im sure they love me too.
if u havent already love ur parents, u shld start to do some self reflection. i'm certain that ur parents (or at least one of them) have been good to u one way or another. start loving them this moment. its never too late to express ur love for ur loved ones. appreciate their presence b4 its too late.
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